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Social development girls insecure responsible who??

Author: Riaz Ahmed 

Increasing social development, the world has become a global village and in this era of knowledge economy, when knowledge, skills, educational development and technology are everywhere, why are the girls of Pakistan becoming insecure? Social progress has stopped because we have stopped following the instructions given by our ancestors, ignoring the Islamic philosophy of life and arranging our families in such a way that western culture thrives and the laws of the land. Women have been given so much power that many boys are suffering punishment for no reason on the false accusations made by them. Take your steps towards the solution of the issue, otherwise such news adorning the media daily, in which girls are being raped, sometimes they are being beaten in their homes, sometimes they are being teased on the way, and this is also the case in big educational institutions. Girls are not safe after all who is responsible for them if we learn from the examples given in this paragraph that as our father said to us about 30 years ago.

“If one of the parents of an unmarried girl passes away, the girl is lucky whose mother dies.” And that unmarried girl is unfortunate whose father dies. If a non-mahram person turns his hand and says, “She is a very sweet girl, Masha’Allah,” then the mother is happy that her daughter is loved, while the father does not accept this gesture. He would have been the protector of the daughter’s boundaries. On such occasions, he must at least give the reaction that he says to the daughter, you go inside. Therefore, even in matters of cousin weight, the mother is careless, while the father explains to the daughter, “Keep your distance.” This is a big difference in the psychology of women and men. An indication of this difference in psychology is that the psychology of a man is very careful in the matter of adultery, while the psychology of a woman is not careful. She does not consider it a serious matter.”

“Therefore, a case also happens that if the mother comes to know that the daughter is having an affair with someone, she scolds the daughter but does not inform the father. If the father sees this matter, he not only arrests the daughter but also immediately informs her mother to keep an eye on her. A serious consequence of this difference in the psychology of men and women is that girls whose fathers die lose their virginity and hardly any of them survive. The mother cannot control her daughters and also uses cover up. If the family is liberal, then in this case, the mother is only watching regularly. Therefore, that girl is unfortunate whose father dies. And the maids of the neighborhood used to receive “charity” from them. We found this statement of our father to be 100% true, but we had never brought it to the tip of the pen before today. Because they knew that this modern age would make nonsense of it instead of acknowledging it. But we heard a vlog of a big American YouTuber on YouTube six months ago. Presenting the details of a survey report released by the American government, he said, “According to this report, a large number of girls in America are living with single parents.” Twenty percent of the girls who are living with their fathers have become mothers at a young age. While 70 percent of girls who have a single parent mother have become mothers at an early age.

So dear! If you have to beat the line of the snake passing through Bahawalpur University, beat it with passion. But we write that there is no difference. Our father did not graduate from any college or university. He was a religious scholar from a rural background. And 30 years ago, he had said such a thing, which even the most modern country like America reached in 2023. Our so-called literate families do not know anything anyway. They only consider bathing with shampoo and conditioners, wearing western clothes, body sprays, and perfumes as “progress”. Knowledge and consciousness do not belong to them. 

The result is that 99% of the girls are virgins and these so-called educated girls are full of ice-cream parlors, cinema halls, remote corners of university lawns, and guest houses. These are the fools who don’t understand even a little bit why the girl insists on getting admission in a far away college instead of a college located near her neighborhood. You even start defending your stupidity. Everyone has considered their daughter as an angel. If every father’s daughter is an angel, then what test tube babies are these guesthouses? Don’t even think about why their daughter is drowsy or sleeping during the day? Why are there dark circles around her eyes? Why does she get tired doing a little work? Why is she getting irritated day by day? Why does she get angry if someone in the house accidentally touches her mobile phone? You cry about Bahawalpur University 2023, we also knew about a girl’s college in Karachi in my youth which had a principal in the late 80’s and early 90’s who cheated the girls of her college. . He had booked three flats in a plaza in North Nazimabad, where this business used to be. About 15 to 20 years ago, Talat Hussain, the prominent anchor of the country, went to London and told the story of the Pakistani students studying there. Pakistani girls are staying in hostels with boys in their rooms so that they don’t have to pay rent. Come on, tell us that the boys were paying the rent instead of them, so what were they giving the boys in return for this favor? If you want to solve the problem, by Allah Almighty, it will be fine from Bahalpur University and not from any madrasat al-binat. If you want to solve the problem, fix those stupid parents who are showing gross negligence in the case of girls. If there is intelligence and consciousness in the parents, no one’s father can take away the innocence of his daughter. In order to create such a society, the parents will have to go back to the society of the past by taking tough decisions so that we can bring back our lost moral values ​​and put the stigma of an Islamic society back. 

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